Why do SOME men think its okay to do what they please to us but never want the same actions done to them?
On twitter, a few men explained to me how they felt about this question.
not all of us are like that…
Honestly, It’s a stupid man thing that needs to stop. Being more specific would F**k your whole life up.
Word. I treat my lady like a queen. I expect the same treatment. King me
with nothing but LOVE and RESPECT, and in 4 years not one argument, my KING made me his QUEEN. #NUFFSAID
Others either asked me to explain or corrected me for saying “men” and not SOME in my first stated question.
My reason for asking the question was pretty simple. By looking at the experiences I watch people go through, I often question myself why they may do it. For love? Attention? Self observing reasons? Sickening reasons?
Whatever the case may be, I have concluded that some men, treat women with no respect, show no true love and do things that please only them.
I stand corrected, it is NOT all men because some men do have the decency to allow a woman to have a fair share in a relationship. On the other hand, other men prefer to have full authority, including the empowering feeling of being superior. However, with that kind of structure, some men are lead to becoming abusers, be it verbal or physical.
Now let’s turn the tables.
In relationships, most women feel over powered by their mates, not having a word to say, any will power to do but only the advantage of being a good listener. If the world were to change, allowing the superiority position to fall into women’s hands things would be entirely different. Some men do not enjoy the thought of being ruled, controlled, over powered, or even spoken to as a child; so why do some men continuously do it to women?
You give and you get. With each closed-door, opens another. Each man and woman should share things in an equal manner. If in a relationship, a friendship or even an acquaintanceship, I believe, all things must be equal to an extent. Of course, I know that nothing on this earth could ever be equal to each individual but there are gives and takes for each role.
Give love to get love. Show respect to be respected. Give honor where honor is due.
This is far from elaborated as I could have gone but I always choose to share my hearts thoughts with the world.