Can a Man be a Slut?

The correct term for a “slut” is ironically enough, “an immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute”. {SN: or can be found here} This proves that many people have catorigized a WOMAN to be a “slut. A slut is also described to be a female dog.

Can men be sluts? Just by going off of what the definition of the word itself means, you would find it hard to believe that its possible, truth is, it is possible. Although the given definition of the word is based off of a female prospective, we can also believe that if a man took up the same qualifications & actions that a “dissolute woman” preforms, he could also be labeled as a “slut”.

Recently, I watched a video by JerryLaVigneJr, who stated the following, “a guy cant be those names because …

1. Woman approves & allows sex.

{SN: Women have the power to control the whole world from having sex. How? If every girl on the planet said “no”, sex could not legally happen.}

2. Its not hard for women to sleep with guys because his strongest power is to say “yes”.

{SN: For a guy, a an adult, if he gets aroused, thats his way of saying “yes”. If a girl is moist, she has the power to still say, “no”.}

3. A Woman has the power to say “no” & have a guy put in jail.

4. A guy is called “the man” ( in terms of, if he sleeps with a lot of girls) because he accomplishes making a girl, who can say “no” say “yes”.

5. In the sense of a girl getting “raped” a man would take action but if a man tells a female he’s been “raped” a female looks as if thats unbelievable.

He also mentioned double standard, which in his words, is a “reality of life”. The definition of double standard is, “The situation of two or more groups, one of whom is tacitly excused from following a standard generally regarded as applying to all groups; The sexual mores applied to men (who are permitted to wander) vs. those of women, (who are expected to be chastely faithful)”.

Consider it this way, if a man is allowed to do the same thing a women is privileged to do, why name label it two different things. A man can be a slut, he is well aware of his interactions with multiple females, & yes what Jerry stated was true, but not all men think of it as “innocent”, some men are, as I said, well aware of their actions.

How do you feel on this situation? Can a man really be a slut?

{SN: If a key opens many locks, then it’s a master key. If a lock is opened by many key, then it’s a shitty lock.}

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2 Comments

  1. It’s all societal and what is viewed as ladylike. Women are “supposed” to save themselves for marriage. A woman is “supposed” to be loyal to her man. A woman is “supposed” to be a virgin to wear white on a wedding day yadda yadda. Can a man be a slut? I’m not too sure. But can that muthafucka be a dirty dicked whore? Sure, why not lol. STD’s know no gender or sex ;D. Dirty is dirty all around. Promiscuity is promiscuity, but for women it’s definitely looked at as a more demoralizing thing than for men.

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